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Marion R. "Becky" Detwiler

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Marion R. “Becky” Detwiler, 73, of Carlisle, passed away on Monday, April 21, 2014, at her home.  She was born on Oct. 7, 1940, in Lewistown, the daughter of the late Charles E. and A. Maxine (Sheaffer) Crosson, and was the widow of John R. Detwiler, who died July 26, 2000.

Becky was a 1959 graduate of Lewistown High School.  She worked as a supervisor in the Child Development Center at the US Army War College and retired in a secretarial position after 31 years of service.  Becky was a member of the Eagles Aerie 1299 Ladies Auxiliary, Women of the Moose, American Legion Post 101 Ladies Auxiliary and a life member of the V.F.W. Post 477 Ladies Auxiliary, all of Carlisle.  Becky enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren, bird watching and visiting the Hollywood Casino.

She is survived by one son, Charles A. (fiancé, Ashley M. Cupko) Winn of Carlisle, one daughter Debra L. (husband, Pat) Tolan of Mt. Holly Springs, one step-son, Walter (wife, Jennifer) Hockley of Gardners, her companion, Ron Davis, five grandchildren; Ian (wife, Lacie) Winn, Jennifer (husband, Matt) Kunkel, Skylor Stitt, Ashley (companion, Adam Bloser) McGinty and Bryce Hockley, three great-grandchildren; Tyler, Daryn and Channing.

Private funeral services will be held at the Ewing Brothers Funeral Home, Carlisle, with Chaplain Jeff Warner officiating.  Burial will be in Cumberland Valley Memorial Gardens, Carlisle. 

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God speed to my special friend! I will miss you girl! Love 'ya Beck!


Charlie and Family - Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Harry & Louise Shaw

 becky was a great friend sorry to hear she passed away wish I could have spent more time with her love to all of you
patricia fuhrman

Deb, Charlie, Ron & Family - Thinking of you at this time in our thoughts and prayers.  Meme will be missed. She was always a smiling, kind person who loved her grandkids.  If any of you need anything let us know.

Amy, Chris, Ryan McQuillen
 My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.....there was only one Becky....we had so many wonderful times TOGETHER ........May
God Bless You All
Rosalie(ROSE) Shank

 Sending prayers your way.
Many great memories of Becky
Please know we are thinking of
her family and how much you will
miss her.
Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Becky. She was a classmate and a truly wonderful person.

Jean (Sheffild) Russell

We will really miss her. She was a wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Mike & Linda Sheaffer

My deepest sympathy to the family of Becky! I have such fond memories of working with her at the Barracks Child Development Center. A lovely lady in every sense of the word!

Betty Hippert
Dear Charles & family And Debbie and family. You have our deepest sympathy. We are sorry we couldn't be there and give you support in your time of need. Becky was a special person and very dedicated to her family Love, Dennis, Nancy, and family.
Dennis L. Crosson
The memory of you will last forever. It was a true blessing to have known you. May God be with you and your family.
Sonny Garman

Sending my condolences to Becky's children and grandchildren. Sorry I can't be there, I am having a problem getting around these days.

Aunt Bernice

Our condolences go to your family. Children and grandchildren. Also to companion Ron.

Jim & Marie

Our hearts go out to you and your family. You and your family are in our prayers.

Hannelore & Billy Stonebraker

Prayers to the family...she loved working with the kids at CDC, and giving them goldfish to snack on as they left...she was the " goldfish lady".

Rebecca Stroup

Sorry for your loss.  Becky will be missed.  She was a very caring person.  I got the pleasure of meeting Becky through her marriage with John.  God speed.

Roger Martin

Sorry about your loss.  I loved Becky, I loved her laugh and her smile.  She will be missed.  Thanks for the good times.

Joan Gruver

Sorry for your loss, Becky always had smile and she will be missed.

Vickie and Harvey Detwiler

It was a Bitter Sweet feeling I had. Knowing she's gone now, but now in a better place. God Bless

Bill and Linda Steele

Miss Becky you were a very special lady! I remember seeing you at the daycare when mom worked there. I hope you find peace where you are now.

Steve and Tereasa Houtz
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